I'm Not Waiting For You

If you want to fuck, then why aren’t we fucking? Silly women. So you’re telling me you’d like to wait? For what exactly? A connection? To get to know me more? Here it is, if I don’t like you now, I won’t like you after I fuck you. I won’t like you after I get to know more about you, because I’ve already decided I don’t want to know more about you. You can tell me everything about you, I won’t remember…..
Women kill me with this, “WAIT” bullshit. First off, I’m never really waiting. If I meet you today, and we talk on the phone once or twice a week, we meet up and hang out maybe once or twice in a month, then you finally give me give me some pussy two months later….I DID NOT WAIT 2 months. Add up all that time we talked and saw eachother, which is probably less than 24 hours, and it took me less than a day to finally hit.
Aside from that though, how could I possibly be waiting if I wasn’t only talking to you? The whole thing about making a man wait is to see what he’s trying to accomplish. If a man only goes out with you, he only talks to you on the phone, etc…. then he’s actually courting you. He’s really WAITING for you. If we go out, then I leave and go over another girls house to fuck her, I’m not waiting on you….regardless of where I get it from, I’m getting it. Sooner or later you’ll be dismissed for not making it happen.
Either way, if you’re horny and I’m horny, and we’re alone, what’s the hold up? I promise I won’t look at you different. I’ve “first nighted” enough women to know that sometimes stuff just happens. The hoe-ish thing comes in when it regularly happens with a variety of different dudes. So don’t be afraid to jumpoff ladies, if he likes you, he won’t dismiss you cause he fucked you.




29 Comments
3/24/2009
whats so wrong with not wanting to be your girl but feeling comfortable with the idea (illusion) of comradery.common courtesy shouldnt be a task. i agree that we should cut the bullshit, but would you also agree that some people regardless of age hold on certain ideals and that is the way they infact “are’? like you said you are never really waiting so why not let tha t particular individual have time if that’s what they are comfortable with.
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3/24/2009
I’ve always wondered this myself… females stay hitting me with this shit and it doesn’t make any sense… especially when we’re already halfway into it… she’s half naked, I’m half naked and then it’s like “stop… i wanna wait…” what for? We’re already halfway there… I’ve never understood that shit….
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3/24/2009
because she’s playing herself………AND……..I fucked her the first night she came over. What was the front for? She came thru, we sat on the couch, we watched some tv, I sucked her titties, next thing u know, she was bent over on the floor. So what was the text for? She wanted to wait what……….. 25 minutes from walking in my door for the first time? The bullshit factor that some women have is amazing. If you’re a woman that really doesn’t want to be sexual, you don’t need to say anything, I’ll know by how you act. I’ll see how you carry yourself with me and I’ll say to myself, there’s no need in even coming at this woman like that, she’s not having it………..well maybe not, but you don’t have to say anything. I’ll know when you move my hands the first time I try to touch. That will be the last time I try to touch you. In my experience, the women who try say the most stuff about not wanting to be sexual to fast are the women with a big, long, nasty history of being sexual too fast.
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3/24/2009
Wow… That was a little abrasive, but all in all what she’s tryin to communicate is that physically she’s attracted to you be still uncertain of you in other aspects. She’s just tryin to discriminate who she gives her pussy to. Dismiss her or not, but don’t judge her on her method of determining who and when she will sleep with someone… Yeah it may be frustrating to you sometimes but damn do you blame her for being cautious with you?
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3/24/2009
It doesn’t matter to me if, the guy that, I’m dating is willing to wait until I’m ready to give up my goodies or not! He can kick rocks, or go suck on a lemon! Because, my body is precious to me, and if he cannot wait, then, “Oh the hell well!” Because, that’ll just show me, how much of a man he is anyways! And, I’m a real woman, with class, and I have the utmost respect for myself, and my body! And, I have no good men, to thank for it. My past relationship, experiences all have been one rollercoaster ride, after another, but, I can honestly say that, I was taught a very, very, valuable lesson behind them all! And, that’s to save my goodies for someone who’ll appreciate them and me. And, when that time comes around again, I’ll be damned if, I will not know it, because, I’ve been taught by the best! “I have now been celebate for 2 years and counting, and I am neither: “thirsty nor lonely, because, I am a strong, black, beautiful woman, I am a Queen!”
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March 24th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
well gone head baby, lol. By all means, if you want to wait for years, or until marriage, that’s fine. I never tell women otherwise. I’m saying, just don’t be fake about it. I’ve ran across women who were HONEST when they said they weren’t interested in having sex and that was fine. I stopped talking to them and moved on with my day. Just because your body is precious to you, doesn’t mean that it is precious to me.
Let’s keep in mind here that this girl told me she wanted to have sex with me. Why even say that if you’re not trying to have sex?
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3/24/2009
After reading your reply she a classic skank, trying to present you with an angelic image up front… But the ho is rarely suppressed and made its appearance 24 minutes later… A ho is a ho is a ho, bs text msg or not.
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3/24/2009
So..20 Seconds because they can’t be life sending text like that..It’s so cold in the D, but it must be very rhetorical aswell
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3/24/2009
I’m so, glad that you’re honest! “To thine onself!” And the feeling is; “OH! So! Mutual!” This is why? I love myself, “Quote-un-Quote! I’m not saying that I’m in love with myself, I’m just saying that, I love myself, just enough not to be deceived by guys like you, or who inspire to be like you! I’ve had sex and I’ve made love, and all I’ve gained from the experiences was: “one heck, of a wet behind!” So, for this reason, alongside of others, I’ve learned to wait and be still for and no! “NOT Mr. Right! But, for Mr. Right Now!”
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3/24/2009
you couldn’t be deceived by me baby (you better be a female, lol) because I don’t deceive. Deceivers are the men who try to make a woman think one thing, when the truth is something else. There are no magic tricks or illusions over here. That’s for “hatetolove”, lol, aka Mr. “whatever it takes for the pussy”
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3/24/2009
“Well, Mr. Whatever it takes for the pussy!” I am; All Woman, from my head down to my toes! Everything about me; “Spells: Woman!” And, it’s not a pussy that I possess, but, rather it’s a Vagina! You see; I do not know what types of women/girls, you’ve engaged yourself with in your very, young life, but, I’m a woman, so, therefore, I’ll only allow my partener to address my goodies as such! And, that you’re not! And mines, you’ll never get!! And, so, on that note: “It’s gonna take a more than you, to knabb this pussy, tussie!”
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3/24/2009
Partner, excuse um-whaw!!
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3/24/2009
calm down woman, lol. I’m not mr. whatever it takes, if you knew about the blog, there is another author, HateToLove, who said he’ll do whatever it takes. I’m not doing anything. too much pussy out here, or vagina as you call it, lmao, for me to go thru all that nonsense. Are you seriously telling me because you’re a woman, from ur head down to ur toes, that your man can’t say pussy? lol. Damn, I feel for him. “Ooooh baby, gimme that vagina”……”throw that vagina back ruthie”…….lmao.
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3/24/2009
Lol, The Undresser is a Mess. You need to be tamed, lol!!!!!
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3/24/2009
I do not really know why women play all these games. I guess they just dont wanna seem ‘easy’ but um come on. If you know you are a good woman, you do not have to prove that to anybody. No I am not saying go and mess with every damn guy you see but if you are horny and wanna have sex with somebody, do not hold back.
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3/24/2009
“Oh! Baby! I’m nothing but, calm, cool, and collected; and, if you’d read what I’d interpreted correctly, I’d stated: Only! My man could, or should, address my goodies as such! Lol! Come on now, Please! Let’s get it now!! Lol!”
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3/24/2009
I mean: Please! Let’s get it right now! Lol!
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3/24/2009
She played herself with that text. How could she not know who she was dealing with? I’m pretty sure you told her the deal when you met her right mr. U? Lol
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3/24/2009
Well dawg on it Undresser why didn’t you tell us she slept with you the first time she came over…that changes everything.
SHE DID NOT WAIT THEN SO WHY WAIT NOW?? unless you slipped something in her drink and she doesn’t remember she had sex with you, lol (not funny if you actually roofied her)
When women wait it shouldn’t be seen as a game or bullshit, its just her way of showing a guy that she takes her nani seriously and doesn’t throw it around like its a dvd.
some women don’t give it up too easy because they tend to think long term doesn’t mean she was an ex porn star. Even some men tend to favor relationships rather than a peice of ass for the night. I;m not saying everyone hasn’t had that time that he/she but mostly he’s wanted to press fast forward but that should not be a habit
But at least your honest. Like you said there’s plenty of ass out there for free but don’t hate on the ladies that want to take their time (even if she verbalizes that thought).
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3/25/2009
me personally i do that “lets wait” thing but sometimes i don`t really want to wait &`d that`s just being honest . me personally i do the lets wait thing to see how long he`ll stick around . but in reality you can have a guy wait 3 months or however long &`d he can still decide to leave so i mean what`s really being accomplished .? do what you feel like doing , yes have respect for yourself but if you wanna do it &`d you feel like he`s worth it then go for it . &`d if he decides to leave after that then atleast you know for future reference . ne-who . . . i have a question mr.undressHER or hatetolove whichever one is the one who said he has a main &`d still gets it poppin w| other chicks on the side , does your main chick know how you get down .?
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3/29/2009
She’s just tripping undresser. If you already hit then what the hell does she want to wait for? I have to commend you on not being deceitful. Most men are this way. This is what piss me off the most. They’ll lie about what they really want when to me it makes no sense at all. What if the woman only wanted the same thing? This chick you dealt with is just playing games, period.
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3/30/2009
Truth of the matter is that women are so damn emotional. Everything is like a maze to get to what you really want even if your messing with a girl your not attracted to in any other way but sexual she’s always gonna see things emotional. There is no such thing as a women without emotions or a women that doesn’t want to be held and kissed and live life like all them boring ass fabio books, the only women you’ll find like that are lesbians, TRUE STORY.
So if you meet a chick that’s playing games with you, tell her upfront that the chemistry between you and her is only sexual and that you can’t play all those emotional games because your a grown man and not a little boy holding a sign saying will you go out with me YES, NO, MAYBE but will you fuck me, YES, NO, NICE TALKING TO YOU. In this situation judging by the text, she’s clearly young minded and if you can’t take her bullshit anymore and you want to make her look stupid because she’s clearly acting dumb; tell the bitch you love her and that your willing to wait til all the ends of the earth and butter her up while laughing inside, fuck her and then leave her.
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3/30/2009
Oh yea, make her feel inanimate while your buttering her up and make sure you have another girl on the side while your doing it.
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3/30/2009
thats wuts wrong with men today they dont wanna wait they just wanna go in because it’ll give them a bigger ego…smh thats why men find the wrong kind of bytches to deal with real talk
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3/30/2009
See the funny thing, she’s trying to be classy but in “open book” style. she must be young because any seasoned WOMAN would say something alluding to her liking the time she spends with you and wanting to know more about you, but certainly not, “I wanna fuck, just not right now”
????? lol.
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3/30/2009
Goldie, she’s 34. Young minded, maybe. Young in age…….not at all.
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3/30/2009
@lolipop:
Too be honest, just like women can sense if we’re dogs, some men can sense if a girl is superficial even when she says she wants to wait or that she wants a man that has a job and a car. So being me, I’m the type to play along with a girl and play games knowing that she’s playing with me and I’ll get what I want and have no regret for playing her but to her she’ll stereotype men based off of me and say that she’s a good female and this and that but I can already sense her hidden agendas and motives and it’s just fun to me.
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4/1/2009
I’m wondering if I have to have a membership or something to blog here…my comment wasnt posted that I sent in last week and I’m sad
ah well, I’ll keep reading.
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4/1/2009
@ playtoi: no you don’t need a membership. Last week, the site was hacked, so the post may have been when we were switching servers. My apologies.
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