undressingHER – LUST. LOVE. LIFE.

I get a lot of questions, and my dudes ask me all the time how do I pull a girl on the first date, what is my secret. There are many ways to get those panties dropping. I think really you have to understand what women are looking for. You have to understand how women think. Pretty much the way I look at a situation and calculate it in my mind is the complete opposite for women. Men think a+b=c. Women think a+b=ab2 or ab or d, or maybe if she’s in a bad mood it can be a+b=43. Yeah I know it makes no sense, once you realize that, then your half way there. Women usually will not look at a situation for what it is. They will take what they see and hear and formulate whatever they want in there mind, but not what it really is. You have to be what she wants, no matter what her mind tells her.

CONFIDENCE is key; it is with almost everything in life. There is a difference between cockiness and confidence however. Always be in control; never leave anything to a woman on the first date. If for some reason you can’t pick the location be confident in that location, even if you aren’t. Perception is everything with women. Why do you think they care so much about there looks? That’s why your looks don’t always have to matter. Most girls are so full of themselves nobody else’s looks matter but there’s. Some girls are so stupid they will only date a guy that there girls would date solely based on his looks. So they’ll date a guy because he looks good, not to her, but to her girls. That’s why looks don’t matter on the first date if you’re trying to f**k. Hopefully you only have to deal with her p***y, not her friends or her own ego. Every girl loves compliments, not “damn baby yo ass fat” but maybe I like your hair. Or even make it a joke, like “you got your hair all done for lil ole me?” or “you just got your nails done today?” Anything to get the attention on her. Girls love all the attention. They do not care about you until AFTER you f**k. They don’t care about anything you have to say unless its about her. Make it seem like you’re interested and be confident enough to ask real questions. NEVER BRING UP SEX. If you’re doing the right thing it will come up.

PRESENTATION is also key, how does a girl perceive you. This is where a good girl friend or sister or cousin can help you. Ask them if they never met you what would be their perception of you? Is your shoes clean, nails clean, hair clean, teeth brushed? How you present yourself can potentially move you from fucking with 3-6 to 7-10. You don’t have to be born with boyish good looks like me; you just have to have that swagger about yourself that women can’t deny. Remember women by nature follow a leader. It’s just this fucked up society we live in now that forces women to make male choices. That is not how they want it though; they want to follow a man. They want to feel comfortable, safe, cared for with you. So try to come off like a confident man that keeps himself up.

SEDUCTION is the part that can’t bet taught so easy. Once you find out what you are perceived to offer a girl, use it against her. Once she feels safe, comfortable and a little opened up this is when you have to go in for the kill. I always say NEVER bring up sex, because if she is interested she will bring it up. Usually questions like “so how many girls are you fuckin” or “when’s the last time you had sex.” My favorite is, “I bet I can suck d**k better than you can eat p***y.” Try to get as physical as possible without it being sexual. Maybe throw an arm around her, play fight with her, when you’re really passionate about a conversation try to at least put your hand on her. If she doesn’t pull away, you’re doing well. Eye contact is important also when you’re seducing a girl. You want to look just enough, but not too much. Look into her eyes when you say something you mean, or at least you want her to think you mean it. Most girls will shy away from eye contact the first date because it renders them helpless. They know once those eyes meet up and if she gets that spark, you’re in control. I think the easiest thing to remember is be more passionate than sexual, without being a pervert or too forward.

LOCATION is everything. That is totally up to you, you can get it in your car her place, or yours. Just know if it’s your place, or your car, make sure both are presentable because all the work you did on the date can be shot down by your place or car. Make sure both are clean and ESPECIALLY make sure your bathroom is clean. You know women can’t go into a new area without leaving there mark in the bathroom first.

So your in the position to f**k now, what do you do? I will explain how I worked this date last Saturday.

So two weeks ago I met a girl at a school party. I was there just to see some of my friends perform, but I saw this girl. Ass was crazy, chest was crazy, face was crazy, and swag was crazy. Lol. I walked up to her and told her “I got tired of staring at you, so what’s your name?” She laughs, and tells me. I got her number, and we text a little during the week. I cant lie she was so fine, I kind of thought to myself she was going to play me. HOWEVER I did not make myself look that way. She would text me asking what I was doing; even if I wasn’t busy I would appear to be. Just so she knows I don’t need you b***h, you gave me your number for a reason and this is why, because you want me. You have to do this without seeming like a jackass self centered jerk which I obviously am. So I finally feel like ok, I’m going to see her today no matter what. It’s been a week, she still texting so I’m going to see her. I made it seem like my day was so busy but I would try to meet up with her. We meet at a bar, I’m late of course, not crazy late, but fashionable. When I see her I give her a big hug, just to lighten up the mood. Always start out with either a hug or at least a hand shake. Try a hug and a smile, if she hugs and smiles back she’s interested. So we chill and talk, I bring up everything about her, ask her about herself. I couldn’t tell you what she was saying I just kept nodding and smiling. I kept acting like it was a little hard to hear over the bar noise so I had to get closer, threw my arm around her, and she was done then. She curled up like a baby next to me. Of course I had gum in my mouth, because I knew I would be talking to her up close. Fellas, please keep a stick on you, nobody likes stinky breath. She’s feeling me, I’m giving her eye contact we are real close, so I throw her my move. I usually go in like I’m going to whisper something in her ear but Ill slowly drag my lips across her neck up to her lips. I gave her a nice little peck. No tongue at first. It’s not needed that early. Girls really like good kissers too, the only advice I can give you is start it out slow, and remember your KISSING, so pucker your lips up as much as possible. I’m grabbing on her now, not sexual though, more sensual. Letting her body know I’m in control of it, and I know what to do with it. I don’t have to touch her p***y or breasts to turn her on. My presence, lips, and conversation did all the work for me. So we end up making out in her car, I’m kissing on her neck until she just can’t take it anymore. I’m holding on to her hips moving them like where fucking to show her again, I got you, you’re in good hands. I eventually slide those pants off, and we have some amazing sex. I honestly would probably date her seriously but I mean we fucked on the first date so I’m ok with that. She will definitely go into my rotation though.

What I want you guys to realize is you have all the power. p***y has no power, yes it has a price, but that price is usually just time. You can not be scared of rejection. That’s just part of the game. That’s like being scared to shoot a basketball because you might miss. Sometimes LESS is more, less about you, more about her. When you start talking about the s**t you have, or have done that involves only yourself, it becomes a who can jack themselves off more on a date contest. You know she’s just going to want to talk about herself anyway so why bother. If a girl wants to know about you, she will ask. This is not your time to talk, just shut up and listen. If you follow these rules correctly and be a master of your own domain, you should not have a problem getting ass on the first date. Don’t be scared to be yourself, and be confident with who you are. Be humorous, but not a comedian, just have fun, make it look like your having a good time. Don’t try to be somebody your not. One thing a woman hates is a fake man. Your intentions may be pre determined, but that does not make you fake. Speaking on something you cant back up is fake. That’s why it’s always best to just listen. Use these tools wisely, and condoms too.

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