Dude, YOUR DAUGHTER IS NOT SPECIAL!!
Thursday, January 28, 2010 9:00 Written By The Undresser
I know every father out there with a daughter in the age range 16-25, would love to believe his little princess is just as innocent as the day he held her fresh out of the womb, but NEWS FLASH JOE, SHE ISN’T. She’s as freaky as the woman you created her with. All this is brought upon by the ridiculous comments I heard today while listening to Angelo Herderson‘s radio show today (a very informative show for what’s going on in and around Detroit, plus the dude is just a good brother in general). The topic of discussion was sexting, and boy o’ boy did the old folks come out of the wood works with their ignorant opinions about what’s going on today.
First of all, let us PLEASE stop acting like women just started taking naked pictures yesterday. I know dudes in their mid-30′s who have hundreds of polaroids of women back from the early 90′s, not to mention VHS sessions. The difference today is that I can take that polaroid, scan it, and share it with the whole world instead of the typical 3-4 people most men would show the pic off to. Sex isn’t new. Hoes aren’t new.
One of the fathers called in really feeling himself. “I talked to both of my daughters, 24 and 21, and made them understand how important is to hold on two their virginity until they got married. I clearly explained to them how important sex is, how sacred it is. A lot of these girls are missing father figures, they’re lost.” I almost had an accident laughing so hard at that crap. While the number of young black girls being raised without an active father are way too high, don’t for one damn second, think that women with fathers who are cops, pastors, politicians, judges, or any other profession; aren’t in the mirror with their shirts off just like anyone else.
Let me site, “Bi-Polar,” the virgin who was VERY close to her dad. Everytime I went over her house she was on the phone with her pops atlest once. That girl gave more head than Jason Kidd’s son. Well wait, maybe not that much, but you get the point. I’ve received nude pics from girls you’d never think would do such a thing, while I’ve been given straight up “HELL NO”‘s by some of the girls who I had sex with the quickest. Matter of fact, almost every girl that I’ve ever cared about was close with her father and they all seemed to be pretty good men from what I could see. While I’m not interested in a monogamous relationship at all, I’m not the worst dude out here. Therefore, I wouldn’t say those fathers failed at their jobs? Would you? There are women getting pimped, getting smacked, and getting bustos/trains ran on them regularly…those are the households I’d want to visit. Not to mention the women who are starving for attention.
Another guy called in talking about how his daughters didn’t get a cell phone until they were 18. Umm, and?? I don’t need your daughter to take the pics, I WILL DO IT. Different technique, same results.
Fathers, there is nothing you can do. You can help them sit on the bike, but you can’t pedal for them. And if your daughter does end up sending pictures of her breasts to some dude, so what? Life isn’t over for her, just like it hasn’t been for the millions of other women who have done the same thing. Some girls are just fast, they’ll send p***y pics to any dude they think is cute, but other young ladies, do reserve that stuff for the man they love or atleast are in a serious relationship with. s**t happens.
Finally, I can’t get over these stupid ass laws in America. In Michigan, a 45 yr old man can have sex with a 17 yr old girl all night and it’s perfectly legal. However, if that man is caught with a nude picture of that girl, who he legally has sex with, it’s a felony. Gimme a fucking break. Meanwhile, a 16 yr old boy can’t have sex with a 15 yr old girl, and if he has nude pics of a 16 yr old girl, it’s a felony as well. So a girl is old enough to give head, but she’s not old enough to pick up her iphone and take a pic?
Ladies, how many of you have ever sent a nude picture to a dude (or girl for that matter)? If so, do you regret having done it? How old should a girl be before she’s given a phone, especially one with a camera?
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ShakinMyHead says:
January 28th, 2010 at 9:22 am
Good post for once a post that was actually talking about something lol. You made good points. Why are you so anti relationship if you so called get all of these wonderful women? Do you ever want to settle down?
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The Undresser Reply:
January 28th, 2010 at 10:04 am
I’m not anti-relationship, I’m OBVIOUSLY not ready to enter a COMMITTED relationship. I’ll be with one woman when I’m in the correct mindframe to do so. I never claimed to have such great women, but I’ve had atleast 5 who were wonderful for me, and that’s all I think you can ask for.
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QueenT says:
January 28th, 2010 at 9:24 am
Well, I personally think if a girl wants to send a naked pic she is going to send it whether she personally owns a phone or not. I would recommend that young girls don’t regularly do this because it can come back to bite you in the butt. If the guy decides to upload onto the net. As a grown ass woman myself, I have sent my man a pic or two…I have taken a coupla pics back in my day. Only, with someone I was in a monogamous relationship with *and I dont regret it*….I do think 15 and 16 is way too young to decide to do something like that but they will do it anyway
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AGK says:
January 28th, 2010 at 9:29 am
From what we all have seen (even more so lately) everyone does it, including a whole bunch of celebrities. It’s a body, everyone has one. They saw u naked, oh well, u should’ve thought bout it before u put it all the way out there.
On the other hand, if u wanna send a picture to someone, it doesnt have to include ur damn face in it. It’s not that different, but at least noone can be 100% sure it’s u.
People have to realize that being honry makes u do things u wouldnt normally do. Lol
But, bottom line is… It’s just a picture. It doesn’t necessarily define u.
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The Undresser Reply:
January 28th, 2010 at 10:08 am
I agree. Since when did people get so crazy over some titties. They’re just titties. If I’ve seen hers, I’ve seen yours. Sometimes, I rather see a sexy lady in a slightly revealing outfit than completely naked. As for the face, I GOTTA have the face in the pics women send me. Without a face, it’s just some random titties, and that takes all the fun out of even getting one. but you never know, what if they guy you sent the pic to, loses his phone, or someone steals his laptop, or hacks into his e-mail?
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AGK Reply:
January 28th, 2010 at 10:36 am
Yes, the slighty revealing is a good solution, since it’s always
intriguing to leave something to the imagination.
U dont have to put all breasts in the same category tho. LOL
I’m glad u only listed those reasons, but i have to remind u
that some people do stuff like that on purpose.
That’s the exact reason why i said that ur face doesnt have to
be in the shot.
Cuz nomatter what happens, if it’s not his fault, it’s kinda diff.
But what if he wanted to embarass u for breaking up with him
or put u all the way out there for whatever other reason?
U cannot always trust ppl like that.
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The Undresser Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 9:25 am
I agree, but it doesn’t matter if your face is in the shot. If you have a certain necklace you wear and it’s in your regular pics as well as ur topless one, that’s all people need to see. If you’re in the same bathroom, with the same towels on the rack, people know that’s you. They’ll just post all the pics at the same time and it won’t be any different.
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AGK Reply:
January 31st, 2010 at 10:21 am
U have a point, that’s why i think of myself as a person completely obsessed with secretion. Lol
I will take all that stuff off n then take a picture, and i will crop the background too. I’m too much huh. Lol
Anyways, i was just saying that u can share with the ppl u choose to share with, as long as u know they wont do u dirty.
It wont feel good if they betray u, u will get way too exposed.
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Chocolatte says:
January 28th, 2010 at 11:18 am
I’ve sent only ONE pic and it was a tittie shot. I have no regrets about doing it either it was something i wanted 2 do.The only reason i choose not 2 do it now is that there’s so much technology ur pic might end up on a billboard n Times Square. Thats the thing that fathers/parents dont realize is that kids r gonna do what they wanna do even if they have 2 go behind their backs to do it. fathers would LOVE to think that their daughters are so sweet and innocent when in all reality she’s the FREAKIEST thing in the world. Its time to stop bein naive and face the facts.
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hisSweestestdream says:
January 28th, 2010 at 12:06 pm
I’ve sent pics, received pics, and even made a few vidoes and as stated above it dosen’t say a damn thing about me.. other then; I am confortbale with myself and have a healthy sex life. I so trust the person who holds all of them, but that dosen’t mean I had my face in all in the camera. With that said trust me when I say I made sure to save all the ones with his face all in my cat shot!..lol. Technology is way to advanced and people get their feelings hurt way to fast so anyone should think twice before they send anything.
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futurnflmom says:
January 28th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
This was a good post….Well i’ve sent , recieved pics as well as been taped(by my ex) and i would say that does not have any bearing on the type of person i am.. I do believe that if there is a pressence of a strong father figure, that our teens attitude towards sex would be different that some one being raised by a single parent.. Now i have a 14yr old who has had a camera phone since she was 12, she has random cell phone checks. But my kid isn’t in that lane, she’s not boy crazy, her hunger is for the books & education… But the proof will be in the pudding. So we’ll see in a couple o yrs
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blue skies says:
January 28th, 2010 at 9:40 pm
I AM as innocent as my Daddy thinks I am even to his surprise. My parents had already had when they were my age 25 years ago on Saturday. I can’t wait until I get married so I could finally have sex and lost this last aspect of girlhood.
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I am... Reply:
January 28th, 2010 at 11:19 pm
Blue skies, you remind me so much of my best friend. She is also waiting to get married to have sex. She is a real virgin, as uH would put it. She’s never had her first kiss (25 y.o.) and only wants to experience that with one person. I think that’s a little silly, but to each their own. uH should realize that every girl is not bad and easy, but I’m sure he meets girls like that most days, he just doesn’t blog about them. What would be the point?
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The Undresser Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 9:33 am
“Easy” is relative to the amount of effort one is willing to put out. One dude will say a woman is easy if all he had to do was take her out a few times…to me, that was WAY TOO MUCH. Mike says if all he had to do was get a room, that’s easy, I say, that’s WAY TOO MUCH.
Honestly, I don’t run across many women I don’t think I couldn’t get, I just don’t care enough to do some of things they’d like to proceed to the next level. There are women who I couldn’t hit in the back seat, but I most certainly could if I took them to my house, I just refuse to do so, so we never hookup.
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blue skies says:
January 28th, 2010 at 9:40 pm
excuse the typos on a mobile device
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TONYA says:
January 28th, 2010 at 10:23 pm
I AM GUILTY OF THESE!! MADE ME THINK TWICE…LOL THINKS UN!! BUT WHATS A SEXT PIC WITH NO FACE NO HARM NO FOUL RIGHT? I HAVE BEEN VIDEO TAPED TOO AND I WISH I NEVER BEEN INVOLED IN THAT! THAT IS WHOREISH…BUT YEAH I LIKE YOUR BLOG IT MAKES ME THINK SOMETIMES LIKE HMMMMMMMMM..LOL
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The Undresser Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 9:38 am
why do you think being videotaped is whoreish?
Being whoreish would be letting 8 dudes run a train on you and letting one of the dudes record you sucking everyones d**k. On the flip side, you could make a flick with your husband and it’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. I don’t look at the women who let me record them any different than the ones who didn’t.
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southerncomfort says:
January 28th, 2010 at 10:54 pm
Good topic. Welcome back. Yeah….I’ve sent a few pics as a grown woman. No regrets. But this thing about raising these kids is scary. You can’t keep them from the world. I think a kid, not just a girl, should be given a phone when they can pay the bill. Period. I hear parents say kids need a phone in case of emergency. Bull Sh*t. Im sure their friends will have phones. I guess….you raise them the best you can and hope they do right.
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The Undresser Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 9:35 am
if I ever did have a child, my child would have one of those phones where you can only call like 4 numbers. 9-1-1, me, their mother, and maybe a grandparent. Nobody else needs to have contact with them without my permission. Matter of fact, I don’t know much I trust those emergency dispatch operators.
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tohrukyo says:
January 29th, 2010 at 4:51 pm
And that’s what’s messed up about this generation in general. As a 26 yr old guy with a 10 yr old sister(no children myself), I do whatever I can to hope that she won’t end up like you described up above. Yet I already know the odds are against me. So many negative influences are just corrupting the young mindset. True, that type of stuff has been going on before the 20th century, but its easier now than it ever was.
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tohrukyo Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 4:55 pm
As much as I like to see some t&a while browsing places like moco, one has to wonder who the hell is gonna think you are girlfriend material when you are showing your b-day suit to everybody and anybody. Well if you’re a freak or something, then that’s you, but don’t say “Im tired of al th e bs niccas tryin da fuk mii” when you are dressing and acting like a h*e. Maybe i’m just naive (=_=)…
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Sheera says:
January 29th, 2010 at 10:02 pm
IMO … Nude pics & videos are great! Getting & receiving them … It is better when if a person can trust whomever they are sending/recording nude pictures and videos to/with – ESPECIALLY if they have their face in them. More than anything, though, people need to learn some discretion, regardless of age and experience.
I don’t think 16 year olds really understand anything about being discrete … but they will … eventually (once their privacy has been invaded or violated)
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Sheera Reply:
January 29th, 2010 at 10:03 pm
Or they’ll learn to be discrete once they grow up (i.e. being older than 18 – 18 year olds r immature too)
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Mrs. 810 says:
January 29th, 2010 at 11:54 pm
I have sent pics and videos to someone who I cared a lot about. And no I didn’t feel bad about it cuz we live 8 hours aways so we had no other way of seeing each other (if u know what I mean) I wasn’t fucking no one else so I aint see nothing wrong with a little SEXTING. And I believes its up to the parents when they give their daughters a camera phone. I do know this if they want 2 take a pic they will take a pic they don’t need their own phone to do that.
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ClosetFreak says:
February 1st, 2010 at 12:10 pm
I’ve sent pictures to my ex and I sort of regret it. Sometimes I sit and wonder what he did with them. Did he delete them or does he do something weird like beat his meat to my pics? As for the whole sexting thing…refusing to give your child a cell phone until a certain age doesn’t really do anything. People still have email addresses and almost everybody has some sort of digital camera. If teens want to send people pictures of themselves to people they can do it without a cell phone.
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ReligiousButReal says:
February 6th, 2010 at 12:43 am
Really good points that you bring to the table michigan undresser, i’m a pk (Preacher Kid) I agree with a lot of the points that he made, we’re human so it is in our nature to be curious. I grew up in the church, most of my friends in church were either pk’s themselves or children of the elders of the church and they did some things that were unimmaginable INSIDE the church. I agree with closetfreak ppl took photos long b4 the cell phone era and STUFF STILL GOT OUT, remember Vanessa Willams and when she won Miss America in the 80s 89 I think, way b4 cell phones and that costed her the crown.
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