She’s Confused
She wants me one day, doesn’t want me the next. She tells me she’s straight on me, then we have sex again, then she says that was the last time. This blog dives deeper into the relationship between myself and the girl from the Birthday Party.
I’m not looking to be with this girl, I just wanted our relationship to remain consistent if nothing else. I can’t label her as a jumpoff, because I truly do like her. While she’s not as accomplished as the main women I deal with consistently are, she has a kind heart.
I know shortie through a female friend. I couldn’t get her to even speak to me for a while, because she knew how I got down out here. When I finally met her though, she gave in. BUT, she was pregnant when I met her, like visibly pregnant. I’m not used to messing with pregnant girls in any type of way, but for some reason I made her an exception. I ended up being at the hospital when her baby was born, and she has never been my girl, just an associate. Just watching her be pregnant and then seeing a little life come out of her, just made me like her just a tad bit more. Oddly, we built up a lot of sexual tension while she was pregnant, so shortly after she had her child, we started having sex. Pretty good sex. As time went on, she wanted something different, perhaps a “man.” We stopped kicking it and then hooked up at the birthday party.
So a few days after that, I text her just saying hello. A few text later, she tells me that the last time we had sex, would be the last time we had sex. Why? I asked. She said because it’s because of me. Now I am known to really not give a fuck about a bitch, but I showed this girl nothing but respect like she was an ex or my main. I even took her out before…and PAID…that’s something I NEVER DO (granted it was for mothers day though). She said it’s not that, it’s just that she’s not used to messing with men who messed with so many girls.
First off, I have one consistent woman in my life, that’s my main. Everyone else comes and goes like the wind. Even my ex’s get their little timeouts where we don’t talk for a while. People seem to think my boy has a lot of cars, but in reality, he only has one. The rest are all rentals, used for a week or a weekend, then dropped off, never to be driven again. I can relate that to my relationships with most women….it’s just a temporary association.
I’ve know this girl for like a year though, still like her. Apparently, she still likes me. She has a boyfriend, which is fine with me, I just want keep kicking it occasionally, nothing serious. When I call her, it’s usually not going down. She’s like nothing can happen or something like that, which leads me to just calling the next girls number, but when I actually do see her, ESPECIALLY alone, we make this eye contact that seems to lead directly, and quickly, to sex. So if she does enjoy my company, then why try to kick me to the curb?
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5 Comments
1/16/2009
you are so honest.
i hope that you let these women know you won’t be dealing with them ne more, instead of just never answering the phone again.
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1/16/2009
oh and ps.
the confusion is probably between what her body wants (the sex), and what her mind wants. she’d probably like to get the whole package from someone instead of just pieces from you.
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1/16/2009
like I said though, she never was just a sex partner. We’ve kicked it several times and not had sex. I can’t lie and say we’re great friends or anything, but we’re cool. She’s actually a friend of my best friend, and my best friends talks to darn much, so she was denying we ever had sex for quite some time.
As far as letting them know, I usually don’t. I’ve never had a problem with “closure” in most cases. Most logical women understand that if I wanna see them, I’ll contact them, if I don’t, I won’t, it’s no big deal. But I don’t “not answer” calls. If there’s an issue, I let shortie know I’m straight on talking to her anymore. No hard feelings, just no point to continue wasting time.
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1/17/2009
i have to admit, i check like every day for a new post lol…im kinda hooked
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1/17/2009
you can just subscribe to the rss feed so you won’t have to come back when I haven’t posted anything new, lol. It’s on the right side.
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