Are You Single? Why?

Why do women always want to know why I’m single? The obvious answer would be because I want to be. If we’re, the young lady and I, are having fun in whatever situation we’re in, why does anything else need to  added to it? Good conversation, good sex, along with ability to keep a smile on a females face along with making her feel comfortable and safe seems like it would be enough, but nope, they want all that, and they only want it to happen with them.

Ideally, I can’t say that’s a bad thing, but if you’re being treated well, then what’s the problem? If a girl leaves my house and another girl comes in as she’s leaving, does that mean I treated the first girl any worse? I’m not offended when girls boyfriends stop by when I’m over their houses.

I’m single because……that’s what I put on my tax w-2′s. Last time I checked, your employer, nor the IRS cared about your girlfriend, boyfriend, boo, or wifey. Either you’re married or you’re not. Sure you can date one person, nothing is wrong with that, but if you don’t, why are you labeled with “playa, pimp, immature, lil’ boy,” etc..?

Would we have voted for Obama if he wasn’t married? What if he was just kicking it with a few women, would be less qualified? What if the pastor of your church wasn’t married? He didn’t fornicate, he just courted different ladies? Does having a title on the relationship you have with someone make it better?

Everytime I hear a woman say, “I’m not having sex unless I’m in a relationship with the guy,” I have to laugh. So in order to fuck her, I have to tell her, I’m ya man? Are these girls serious? This is why women get lied to, because they tell dudes they have to be “together” to hit, instead of telling the dude, he has to treat her well, they have to court together in public, they have to meet eachothers family, maybe get married, get tested for STD’s together, and things of that nature. Nah, forget all that, just call the girl your boo and you’re good to go.

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Author: The Undresser

Black, Single, and Not Looking. Enjoys grilled salmon, cold glasses of water, and grocery shopping at Meijer. Likes women with nice ass to waist ratios, Reese Cups, and watching Real Time with Bill Maher. Dislikes cigarettes, littering, and disobedient children.

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Big Black Buddha

1/7/2009

Yeah I here you Undresser. Most the time women just bring the BS on themselves. They can get what they want but still will find something to complain and a reason to change it up. Its not enough that they have the guy and the dick that they always wanted but now they want to wrap you up and keep you all to themselves.

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Miss Sophisticate

8/13/2009

Undresser,
First congratulations on developing a blog that keeps my interest for more than five minutes. Second regarding your blog, I would like to answer a few questions regarding the importance of committed relationships. Please, for a minute consider dating from a responsible woman’s perspective. In some situations, we meet men that we don’t know as much as we would be comfortable knowing. We date for a few months and may desire to become intimate (the feelings are typically mutual) but we are guarded in this decision as a result of the high prevelance STDs, the risk of pregnancy, or just a broken heart. Steps must be taken to at least give us some feeling of comfort in making the decision (even if it is a false sense of security). One of the ways to help in our decision would be some form of committment. When a man has committed to you and only you, you feel a lot more comfortable in your decision to take the relationship to the next level. I know condoms and birth control can prevent these things; but none of these things are full proof and prevent the hurt that can come from sleeping with a man and never hearing from him again.
**This was written with nothing but love and in support of your blog*

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