Hate To See A Bitch Let Herself Go….
So this story is a few years in the making, maybe over a 4 year period.
Met this girl back in high school, we met offline, but we had common friends so it was all good. She stayed maybe about 6 cities over from me, so seeing each other in high school was almost impossible. One day we finally met in person, and I was shocked. This girl was amazing. Tall, about 5″ 8″ without heels, long hair, pretty lips, pretty eyes, light skin. Her personality made me feel so comfortable; it was like we knew each other forever. We met at this mall, and just walked around for 45 minutes. We then saw a movie after, made out in the movie theater, and the parted ways.
I was still in high school at the time and not very mobile so it was hard to see her again after this, she was disappointed but understood. We stayed in contact however. Always checked in on each other, called occasionally, and talked about what could have been.
So I see her again maybe 2 years later. I just randomly called her up, and say “hey let me take you out, I’ve missed you.” Shes down, but says “you kind of played me so I’m picking the place.” I agree, and then go pick her up. She’s still a few cities over from me, but I make it there. She is still so bad, just as thick, smelling good. I can tell she’s a little different though. Seems like she maybe has a lot on her mind, or is very stressed. I just want to be positive with her and not add to that. So I ask “where are we eating?” She says some steak house. She’s extra hungry I guess. lol
We get there I tell her to order whatever she wants. She gets a big ass steak. It comes to the table I’m like shit, since I’m paying; you BETTER eat the whole thing. Non of that taking it home mess, I don’t play that. She laughs and reassures me not to worry about that. She cleans the fuckin plate. It was kind of a turn on. LOL. Of course while were eating desert, she tells me she has a mans. I didn’t get mad that I took another nigga bitch out, because it wasn’t really shit, plus I missed her and wanted to see her. She’s telling me how all he does is smoke weed, lie, cheat, blah blah. I just tell her maybe you should move on to me then. She just tells me I’m too unpredictable, which I agree on. I drop her off, and we keep in touch still.
So last year she hits me up, and I’m looking at her pictures like Okay, she’s still got it, maybe we can chill or something. Were both much more mature, and at a point in our lives where we can make grown up decisions. lol. So shes like we should kick it, plus Im single, and I have some un finished business with you. Im like wha you mean? She says you already know. Implying she wants to fuck. I tell her I don’t want to get down like that off rip.
(now Im going to tell you why I say that for every girl, even if I definitely plan to fuck. Well just in case I don’t want to have sex I can blame it on being a gentleman and wanting to wait for something special, so its a win win imo)
So she’s like we should smoke, fuck, and then go out. Sounds like a plan to me. I don’t mind if a girl smokes weed with me, I don’t like girls who smoke all the time though. I think its very un lady like and I would never date a girl who does. Once in a while with a guy your kickin it with, or with your girls when your going clubbing is okay, but daily? NO. So I give her my address, and tell her how to get here. It’s very easy, you only get on two high ways. Of course women have no sense of direction and she gets lost. I have to navigate her to my crib.
So she gets to my front door, knocks on it, and I opened it. OMG. She looked like a light skin Whitney Houston. Skinny ass fuck. Busted ass air forces, her jeans where all dusty and not ironed. Shirt collar looked like a baby had been tugging on it. She gives me a big hug like I miss you. Im like errrrr-right. So I close the door behind me, because she is not coming in. I’m like lets smoke inside your car, I don’t want to smoke inside the crib. She’s okay with it, so we go smoke, maybe like 4 blunts. Now I smoke maybe once every other week now. So that was wayyyyy to much for me. I was about to pass out. She tells me about how her ex cheated on her, got her hooked on smoking, and basically fucked up her life…blah blah blah. Then she was like what are we doing tonight? Bitch wha? You serious? Im about to go to sleep. So I tell her maybe tomorrow, she kisses me, and Im so turned off. I just keep remembering when I was a kid, when they had those Saturday morning commercials that would get you not to smoke. You remember the ones where it was an ashtray, and it said “Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray.” That’s exactly how I felt.
She blows my phone up like 8 am the next day, then calls me maybe 6 more times. I’m so disgusted how bad this hoe fell off. I just can’t believe how do you go from a dime to a nickel within 4 years, and not have any kids. She’s just an addict and I wouldn’t even fuck her, let alone date. So I continue to ignore her, and this is what she sends me on facebook, and what I replied with.
So basically you’re a fiend, we were never friends, and we had planned on fucking so don’t make it something its not. I have enough smoke buddies’, I only wanted to smoke with you to get them panties off. And you smoke before you come? That’s probably why you got lost stupid ass. LOL. Damn ma, step your shit up PLEASE! I hope she reads this some how and steps her shit up, because no respectful man like me would ever date you. Wash your face hoe.
-HateToLove
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19 Comments
3/25/2009
smh!! dammmn…you caught a brick that night fam. but yeah she should read this shit because i hate to see a nigga break a girl whole swag. Cant front tho her profile pic look like she might be aight lol. You still should of got some head or something….
PS: Your ipod game is crazyyyy….you brought me back to maaaaaad shit, you need that lloyd banks “one night stand” too, that fit the image of your page too.
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3/25/2009
i don’t think you are wrong for not wanting to talk to her anymore. she set the bar and then couldn’t keep it at the same level or higher…her bad. BUT you should of been up front with her instead of just not answering the phone. that just inflamed the situation.
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3/25/2009
I agree with Ash 100%. You should’ve been up front with her. I personaly would rather somebody tell me that they’re not interested rather than ignore me. I like guys that are upfront and don’t hold back. But yeah, she’s setting herself up for being single for a long time. Who knows how many blunts she smoked that day. You are not wrong for keeping it moving, no looking back.
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3/25/2009
believe me HTL, somewhere in the D, or the surrounding area, there’s some nigga who smokes all the times who’d love to wife her. I’ve seen the girl, I know they’d go for it.
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3/25/2009
all she wanted was for you to be upfront instead of dodging her. she probably thought that you liked to smoke just as much as her. for example: you drink and I drink but you dont drink as much as I do, I have 3 cups and you have one cup. does that make me an alcoholic? LOL, she was under the impression that ya’ll were good “friends” and that ya’ll could kick it just like old times. only this time there was an exception she wanted to give you some. either way she fell off and you didnt want anything else to do with her. next time dont ignore calls, pick up and be honest!
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3/25/2009
LOL. She knew she looked bogus. That’s why she trying to holler that friend SHIT NOW! She knew you was’nt trying to FUCK, tell her ass to BEAT IT. LMAO
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3/25/2009
HateToLove always talking about, “SHE WAS LIGHT SKINNED & TALL.” She looks mixed to me! You must only date them kind of females?
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3/25/2009
Nah I don’t only date light skin tall girls, but it seems whenever its some drama, or negative situations it involves the light skin ones.
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3/25/2009
yeah, i like the ipod playlist too… a couple of other good songs.
mac “still callin’ me”, the game “one night”…
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3/25/2009
LOL damn….but u could’ve @ least stated how u felt when she called…why respond on fb but not answer ur phone?….I guess u just didn’t want to have an actual conversation aboput the situation…she looks pretty from the profile pic…
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3/25/2009
Whoops I meant about*
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3/25/2009
Damn, but 4 years is a long time. You told her you weren’t feelin her so what else can you do? I just can’t believe she came at you after years wearin the dustiest clothes ever, she knew you were coming she should done somethin with her ass!
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3/25/2009
Friends or no friends, it’s no reason for her to have been looking ridiculous like that.
Not to say shortie needs to be high fashion profile, but she needs to at least look presentable.
Iron your shit, brush that rat’s nest, wash your ass, lotion & put on some smell goods… simple rules. And those are the basics.
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3/25/2009
how you gonna say her pic looks like she could be aight — clearly her face is blocked out… if you mean her weave looks ok then yea, you can get that comment lol!
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3/25/2009
LOL…right. She is def not that hot. Her hair is real tho. Also those pictures are about 2-3 years old.
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3/29/2009
I think next time you should just keep it real. I don’t see why you couldn’t tell her.
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3/30/2009
One thing you have to understand is that women are confusing and even though they think they know what they want, they really don’t so you have to go by your own instincts with them, be yourself, throw your cards on the table and tell the bitch, like look that nigga in your previour relationship fucked your head up, I don’t want your baggage thrown on me, you look worse than maia campbell on crystal meth and I’m no longer attracted to you, in fact you scare the shit out of me and I would like it if you see medical treatment immediately because blowing a nigga phone up 8 times in a day is a sure way of turning him off, bitch I’m sorry but you have to bounce. Please don’t text me unless your using proper grammar that I can understand when your not smoking weed which I think is laced. She’ll leave you alone after that or she’ll kill herself but at least she won’t bother you anymore.
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3/30/2009
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3/30/2009
yeaaaaaa. Maybe you should talk to women who use grammer they’ve learned.. because that FB message was hard to read. You mess with girls like this and you’re bound to run into THAT. lol
what is “iono” ? lol
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