Is This Woman Serious?
I don’t know how many of yall caught Steve Harvey on Oprah on Monday, but let me just say, that dude is THE TRUTH. He actually speaks against my entire way of life when it comes to women, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that he is almost always right.
A woman on the show asked Steve about this “90 Day Rule” in which he encourages women not to have sexual contact with a man their dating for 90 days, GOOD LUCK WITH THAT BULLSHIT. Anyway, the woman asked, was “heavy petting” and oral sex a part of that rule.
Watch the video below….
WHAT THE FUCK? The girl said she was not having sex for spiritual reasons. Whoa, hold up. So in your religion, God said you can get your pussy ate and jack a nigga off, as long as you don’t let him inside your vagina, you’re good to go? HAHAHA. Funny how people like to make up stuff to fit their lifestyle.
I know their are dudes out here who just eat pussy for the heck of it……that’s SAD. But what makes her think that these dudes aren’t just doing it to hopefully fuck. One day, she won’t be able to resist after that orgasms he makes her achieve. So if you’re really not trying to be sexual, why even open the door with that stuff?
It hit home with me because I met a girl who was telling me the same stuff about a week or two ago. “There are other things to do besides have sex,” she said. LMAO. Silly girl. If I’m busting a nut, then I’m good. YES, how I bust the nut matters, as I rather not be jacked off when you have a mouth and a pussy, but once I bust…….I bust. No more cloud over my head and you’ve served your purpose. That doesn’t mean I put you on some pedestal because you’re the girl who won’t fuck……you’ll just do everything else.
Steve and the entire audience told the girl, “YES” it’s a part of the rule. DUH. I’m wondering what type of man is willing to spend 90 days eating a womans pussy without getting his dick sucked or something? That is just down right horrible.
*and as a bonus, ladies, form ur own opinions. Don’t let any man’s, or woman’s, guide to life be YOUR guide to life. Listen to people and form your own opinions and conclusions about how you want to be treated by a man. Steve Harvey said, don’t be a chirp girl (a girl who gets in the car after the dude opens it with a remote…..make him open the door). Well let me tell you something…… if I hit that button and you don’t get in, you’re getting left. REALIZE that there are about MAYBE, 10,000 black men in the country that will ALWAYS open your door, maybe half of them look like you want them to, half of them are single. So it’s about 10 million of yall that are going to fight for 2,500 men, yea ok……good luck. Get your ass in and let’s go.
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21 Comments
3/24/2009
I’ve read Steve Harvey’s book and actually think it’s pretty good. I do want a male’s prespective on the book though. Not saying that I take everything that he said and use it in my daily life but he does have good points. But it is one of those situations that what you aren’t willing to do there are other girls that are more than willing. It would be hard to appy a lot of those things in life because there are a large majority of women that don’t care. For example, dudes wouldn’t be able to cheat on women as easily if the other woman wouldn’t talk to a man that’s committed. Next example, if EVERY woman used the 90 day rules, dudes wouldn’t have a choice, but to wait and put in work to get it. (Just simply stating).
As far as the opening car doors thing goes, I think that unnecessary and a bit extreme. You do need to open doors to public places for me. Why? Cause I’m a lady.
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March 24th, 2009 at 2:54 pm
like I said, Steve Harvey is my dude. I listen to him daily and he always speaks the truth about relationships. For the record, I do open the door to public places for women I go out with. It’s just what I do, my grandma makes me do it for her so it’s what I adopted. BUT, I only go out in public places with maybe 1 or 2 girls anyway, matter of fact, it’s back down to one now. You can’t open doors for women you never went out with to begin with.
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3/24/2009
Alot of women fail to realize that they are the masters of their own fate when it comes to how men will address them. This is why I like to talk to men about relationships. Sometimes its like the “blind leading the blind” when we consult our girlfriends.
As far as the 90 day rule, that chick is setting herself up for failure. Plus if dude is putting it down, there is no way that ima just want oral…what a waste.
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3/24/2009
That is so true and I think if u don’t open the door your should get left. You may be cute and have some good pussy but you aint Queen Amadala.
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3/24/2009
Yeah, Steve Harvey is the Shit!!!!! I ran to Borders to buy his book the first day it came out.
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3/24/2009
@ undresser, I wasn’t referring to u inpaticular about opening doors just generally speaking.
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3/24/2009
Sex<Love…..but it’s great nonetheless. Putting that much emphasis on the sex in a relationship is ridiculously unhealthy.Every time I told a guy he had to wait 90 days…it would honestly feel as though I wrote a post dated check on my vagina account. I don’t need the pressure of living up to that promise or the equally unattractive pressure of folding before the “due date.” As far as opening my door….you scratch my back and I’ll keep scratching yours. Based on the old school…I fix your plate when we eat, I iron your clothes when we’re going out, etc. You can take the five seconds to come open my door…it won’t hurt.
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March 24th, 2009 at 4:28 pm
I agree with you, that’s only if you’re the woman doing that though. My main can have whatever she wants as far as shivery goes, but I damn sure don’t open her car door all the time. I spent $500 on this Viper alarm WITH KEYLESS ENTRY for a reason.
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3/24/2009
Right…and I can respect that. His ideas are based on the “old-school” ways of approaching relationships, so it could ONLY apply to your main. The same way the things I do….I only do for my #1…. not my friend, and not the guy I call when I want to lay up. When dating, you learn what you’re willing to do for different classifications of “friends.” Despite what they may say, everyone does not deserve equal treatment.
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3/24/2009
i thought you only went out with your main? make up yo mind you startin to make contradictions now. so how is it back down to one when it was only one supposedly to begin with all yo girls sounds like jumps even the main
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3/24/2009
I AGREE STEVE IS THE TRUTH
But you know I was thinking about this subject the other day now that I’m single again. I really would rather stay away from the casual sex thing, I dont know how I’m gonna manage when I meet the next guy but I’ll have to be creative LOL. I was thinking to just take about a year off from even entertaining anyone and just focus on school ( looking to apply to grad school and my job is demanding). I’ll party, use my dildol and read to stay busy.
But back to the blog..I agree with Steve except I called it the 3 month rule which should actually be extended to 6 months cause ppl are looney tunes out there and you find out everything when real time passes.
But I need to ask a question?? Will my rule against casual sex (yes that includes oral) until we’re “together” fly with men now-a-days or am I setting myself up for failure :-/
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3/24/2009
If a guy is willing to wait 90 days to have sex with you then he really wants to be with you. Sex shouldn’t be used as a tool to keep a man around. I talk to women all the time who say “If I dont have sex with him, he wont stay around.” With guys who only want sex and dont respect you, this is true. If hes a good man, and wants you for more than your body he will. Simple as that. 90 days is a long time though. LOL. I could do 60 for the right girl.
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3/24/2009
@HATETOLOVE
whats another 30 days? lolz
But I wouldn’t use my nani for keeping a man around but more to avoid making the mistake of laying with a fraud and to get to know a person better without the distraction of sex.
If you boink someone too soon then you may not get to find out important details plus by not phucking the person your simply getting to know, you can also talk to a few other ppl with out whoring. no?
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3/24/2009
i’ve never read the book, but i heard its the same common sense ish that men kick to women all the time…THE DAMN TRUTH….i mean really im not taking anything from steve because i appluad the man for writing the book, but seriously i’ve had convo’s with women about the same issues however when i would speak the truth they would always come up with some excuse or say im talking crazy or look at me like “this nigga is stupid”…same way some of the females were looking at steve when he would make suggestive comments to some of the women asking the questions…some women were receptive while others were looking like “yeah whatever”…
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3/25/2009
man i could computer poke you for having your music on automatic play. lol you made me laugh. i just watched that clip of steve on youtube yesterday. i was like she’s tripping. yea i don’t know about waiting on a guy to open my door. i’m too impatient. i dig it though don’t get me wrong i like it.
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3/25/2009
First off, please do some about the music automatically playing. It’s annoying. And here is the video just in case you want to add it to this entry.
http://dimewars.com/Video/Oprah_Says_Yes_To_Receiving_Oral_Sex.aspx?bcmediaid=1656f66b-1f25-4567-9729-47db2a72ab01
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3/25/2009
thats stupid to do all those other things and not have sex because those things eventually lead up to sex…duh…lol
but i agree that people shouldn’t let other people tell them how to live jus do what feel right for you…but that chic needs to read her bible again cuz she’s still gonna be havin sex
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3/29/2009
O.k I’m new to your “blog” , But undresser u’ve previoulsy said u have a”main” but then u say stuff like da only purpose of a broad is to fuck her. I’m confuse do ur main bitch know u be fucking other bitches. or are yall just fuck friends. The people wanna kno
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3/30/2009
In this situation, most men that are giving women oral sex but not receiving or having sex with them are insecure with themselves and they feel like there aren’t alot of women out there for them so women would typically take advantage of that. Alot of New York women are like that and thats why you have these fat ugly rejected in the face women in New York thinking there the shit because the ratio of men exceeds that of women. You must have respect for yourself before you can be with another person or else they’ll look to take advantage of you. Part of my whole philosophy to life is to have closed ears to birds (not meaing that I disrespect them but that I’m nonchalant to what they say) and to have open ears to women.
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3/31/2009
this girl and anybody else who believes petting, licking, sucking, oral all of that is less than sex is STUPID! I’m mean really. You can’t have your cake and eat it too…LOL no pun intended
Additionally, it sounds to me like some of the men up in here have a lot of disrespect for women in general. (and some of the women are lacking some self respect as well) I am old school and just like what one won’t do, somebody else will, it’s the same way for women. you won’t open my door, somebody else will! What ever happended to treating women like your dad treated your mom or treating women like you would want (and expect) someone to treat your sisters or YOUR DAUGHTER???? I’m curious to know why do you see women as just sex objects?
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3/31/2009
Oh, I forgot to say, I like Steve Harvey and I think he gives great advice to women cluing us in on how men are thinking when they deal with us.
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