How To Ensure You’ll Be Cheated On
Today I came across a good ol’ status that I couldn’t believe. To her defense, she has since stated that she wasn’t done, but I can only reflect on what I saw, lol. And what I saw was this…
When a man cheat’s ladies dnt be so qiuck to run away and bash him to your girlfriends, be a woman and talk to him and see what you are doing to lead him into straying away. #fyi I’m not saying be dumb n keep getting cheated on but be grown abt the situation sometimes #thnkabtit
I’d just like to see what the ladies have to say about this before I….ehhhh. Here’s my response:
Please don’t encourage women to keep thinking that the woman is doing something wrong. Most men cheat, because they want to. They have the opportunity and the options…it’s rarely ever the woman’s fault. If he’s a “man”, he should have told you he was unhappy BEFORE he cheated.
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8 Comments
6/3/2011
20% agree with her; 80% agree with you
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6/4/2011
If someone is gonna cheat, they will cheat no matter what you do. It is never anyones FAULT however, (I listen to playboy radio on my sirius) and men call in all the time on the brink of cheating because their wives just won’t give it up to them (years sometimes). The men have talked about it to their wives and tried to mend the situation to no avail. So I guess at times you CAN fault someone. Yet, for the most part there is nothing u can do either way to affect the probability of cheating.
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6/4/2011
Guess you do have (some) sense
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6/5/2011
That doesn’t make sense. If you say it’s not the woman’s fault, then why would he tell her that she was unhappy? He’s probably not right?
He’s happy with her, and her, and her. He’s not lacking anything. Your comment seems contradictory.
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June 6th, 2011 at 7:26 am
not being happy doesn’t have to mean its anyones fault…
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6/5/2011
undressers you are right, don’t pacify that man with a conversation. He had the opportunity to let you know something was wrong before violating the relationship. Offer him a conversation, when he didn’t offer you consideration before he went out an fuck someone else, bitch you buggin.
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6/7/2011
Cheating is not one of those things that just happen. Cheating is not one of those things that men just do. It is not random. It has reasons and factors. I do think the girl is right in saying that a woman should be “grown” about it. And sometimes being grown about it is the two of you discussing how the two of you’s relationship resulted in infidelity. Did he grow up watching his pops cheat on his moms? Is he feeling insecure about his ability to please you? Did he experience a lot of rejection? Does sex make him feel better about his life? A good woman should be asking these questions because infidelity is a sign that her man has a problem somewhere. It may be her but most likely its him. And if you want to stay with him that problem, whatever it is, needs to be solved pronto.
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6/7/2011
Yeah… The only reason a woman could “deserve” being cheated on is if she did it first, otherwise if the guy isn’t happy he should just tell her, and they can try and work things out, or separate, I don’t get WHY he’d want to stay with a girl just to cheat on her.
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