So This Is Love?
I came across a status on facebook today that while truthful, made me shake my head…
Ok I know what love is…..ladies when ur man bathes u after u had a nite of drinkin and u threw up everywhere and he cleans it up and feed u and put u to bed….and after all that…look u in ur eyes and says I love u baby now that’s love…..
Now, there’s no arguing that any man that does this either really loves you or is a complete idiot. I’ll tend to agree with the love part. Now that we have gotten that out of the way, let me say that I don’t consume liquor at all, so my opinion is a little biased. I do not hang around women while they are consuming alcohol, and if I did, I would have probably fucked half of Southeastern Michigan by now. I’ll put my unpopular opinions aside and state that most people are down for having a good natured alcoholic beverage from time to time. Some do it to catch a buzz and relax, while others get a little horny or excited from it. Both of this are ok…I guess.
Then you have the dudes who get drunk and either end up killing or being killed. They are off their rocker obviously. Lastly, you have the females who get shit face wasted. On no planet is that attractive. You want the girl to be just drunk enough to fuck, not so drunk that she throws up on your dick while she’s sucking it, or so I would think.
Back to this status. Why is my woman getting so damn drunk to the point that she’s sitting there throwing up over herself? Answer….she wouldn’t be. But his is, so he has to clean her up like a good dude should.
So if your partner loves you enough you to clean you up after such a disaster, shouldn’t you love yourself enough to not cause the disaster in the first place?
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5/17/2011
I agree with you 100%! I’m not going to lie and say I don’t drink… I probably drink 2 to 3 times a year and that’s half of the glass because I heard (meaning I LISTENED) about hangovers, poisoning, etc from my parents and peers… Eh… Not for me. I do not need a buzz or anything to do a darn thang… PLUS LIQUOR IS NASTY! And I love being the designated driver. Worrying about my friends getting home isn’t a good look. But back to your question…
Yes! Everyone should love themselves that much and more because HELLO! Not everyone wants to babysit a grown person who cannot control their liquor. It’s upsetting, embarrassing and cause a lot more trouble than it can fix.
1. People talk too much.
2. People pick fights.
3. People let sayings about liquor get the best of them (etc YOU KNOW LIQUOR MAKES YOU HONEST)
I really get annoyed when people say, “I can’t do this or that without liquor in my system” … ARE YOU SERIOUS?! You can’t have a good time unless you’re completely intoxicated??? Then go live in a box.
Anywho… I’m not blasting or bashing anyone who does. I mean… Y’all do what y’all do. It’s just not for me. I don’t anyone babysitting me, I don’t want to question myself about what I’ve done the night before.. Just too much comes with drinking and I’ll just pass.
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5/17/2011
Hate is a strong word, but i HATE piss drunk people. I HATE THEM.
I’ve worked for clubs for a long while and i’ve seen the worst. I dont drink alcohol and i’ve never been drunk in my life.
If i were a man and had a girl who was getting that drunk… Well, i’ll agree with you UH, i simply wouldnt have that type of girl *shrugs*
Apart from unattractive, i find it completely classless.
Noone has to clean up your puke, unless they’re your parents/husband/wife. And preferably, that’s when you’re sick and not wasted.
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5/17/2011
Even a better question, why care about the next person? People are entitled to have their own standards and requirements in a mate.
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5/17/2011
I agree with AGK, my family has a history of drinking problems and I don’t smoke or drink because I find it pointless. People look for that high feeling to numb their emotional pain they’re trying to hide but it comes out in the end and sometimes it’s unhealthy.
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5/17/2011
The practice of measuring your partner’s love with their ability to revel in your less attractive qualities/habits if rather unfair. Acceptance is one thing, but if the alternate assumption to this is that any man who dislikes doing that couldn’t TRULY be in love with you then this individual’s definition of love needs WORK (or at least some mild tweaking).
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May 19th, 2011 at 6:09 pm
I love the way you write.
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5/18/2011
I agree. Who wants a sloppy drunk woman? Answer: A sloppy drunk man.. Or a fool.. But I don’t think that is how ‘love’ should be described. That’s not the love I want.
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5/19/2011
I feel like this is tricky because no one can really define love. It varies from person to person. Everyone’s limitations differ. I can’t love the same way you love. I can’t always just love the good parts of you what about the bad parts that you may need help in. No one is perfect, but everyone wants to be loved imperfectly. People can’t always see the bigger picture. No one likes a drunk but with love being so open with these four letters you can always overcome being there emotionally physically and mentally for someone you really care for.
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May 19th, 2011 at 6:05 pm
I wasn’t saying he was wrong at all. That’s his girl and he took care of her…that’s only right. I was just saying…I hope this isn’t a reoccurring theme.
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