The Ugly Truth: Why It Seems Like All Men Just Want To Fuck You
If you google the question, “Why do men only want one thing?”, you will receive over 79 million search results. That’s a lot of search results for something that is rather simple to understand; Men Like Sex. I’ve had quite a few women in recent weeks ask me why every man that they met only wanted to have sex with them and my responses varied from person to person, but I can’t accurately speak for any other man’s perception of a woman’s value. What I do know is that the men that you meet want more than sex, they just don’t more than sex from you.
To think that a man is only motivated by sex, is to think that you know a character from a reality show. A reality show that comes on once a week, for 30 minutes (which is actually 23 minutes). You get to see what the producers want you to see and in REALITY, the producer is each and everyone of us. We get to choose what parts of ourselves we show to other people. I could change the whole tone of this blog if I only wrote about how I interact with Jabs, Bumble Bee, Bubbles, and Mellow Yellow. It would go from, “he’s a whore” to “he’s so nice”, instantaneously.
If I just want to fuck you, I’d never mention my short-term goals. I’d never bring up the republicans dominance at overshadowing the successful policies President Obama has implemented. I’d never talk about how cloud computing is going to change the world in the next 20 years. Shit, I won’t even sit with you and watch Boardwalk Empire because with you, all I care about is how you’re going to get this nut out of my dick.
I don’t care how your day was, I asked because sometimes it’s better than my usual, “Can I fuck see you today?” I don’t care that your baby’s father is tripping or that all the girls around you are haters. No I can’t think of anything for us to do, because, I don’t want to do anything but fuck you. “Bitch if you say, I can’t get no pussy, you can hit the highway, right away it’s ok.” Word to YAYO.
I definitely have plans to go to the art museum with my OTHER lady friend and try to rationalize the insane value that Caucasians made up for a painting that looks like a toddler created it. Yes, I go to the movies EVERY WEEK and I will NEVER ask you to join me. Yes I will be attending multiple comedy shows, sporting events, and poetry readings this month and you won’t be accompanying me to any of them because…I just want to fuck you.
When a man meets a woman, regardless if it’s on facebook or at church, his brain begins to process everything that she does. What is she wearing? How does she speak? How is her hair? All of these things form small calculations in a complex algorithm called “What do I want this bitch for?” Every man’s algorithm is different. If a man likes to smoke with his woman and he smells weed all over you, his brain will ring, “winner, winner.” If I smell it, well, you know. Now for Random dude A, you are no longer just sex, you are sex AND a smoking buddy. What else does random dude like? He likes to fuck fat chicks, BUT, he can’t be seen in public with them, SO all fat women that he encounters will be house buddies. Point being, to one man, you maybe nothing more than a weekend warrior, to another man you could be his soul mate.
“But why do ALL men seem to just want to have sex with me?” Because you LOOK like sex. Everything you do is sexual. Your facebook page is full of ass shots. Your tongue is out. When you go out, your ass and titties are always out. When you’re in class, you look like you want to fuck. You present sex appeal for attention, so don’t start acting funny when you get sexual attention. Not to mention, it’s Easy like Sunday Morning to fuck you. Sometimes, a man will find himself liking you beyond sex during the courting/dating/talking process. He’ll realize, hey, this bitch has a big ass booty and a great personality. If I thought you were ok, decent enough to get to know, and then we exchange a few text, I come over, and you end up butt naked based on 30 minutes of actual time we spent dealing with one another (and you can “know” someone for a month and still only have communicated with them for half an hour)…then I CAN’T like you. You didn’t even give me a chance to like anything but the way you bend over.
There’s another tab to this. The guys like me who may like you beyond sex, but will stop talking to you don’t want to have sex. Yea, ah well, sue me. I can like you, A LOT. I can take you out, rub your feet, and spend countless non-sexual hours with you 5 days a week…but when I want to bust a nut, you’re either with me or against me. It’s obviously not that I only wanted sex, but I still want sex, and “NO” is rarely accepted for reasons other than illness and bleeding to death. Even if this is the case though, it’s never that we ONLY wanted sex, we just really need that…too. It takes you from that great woman who we love spending time with, to that great women who we love fucking AND spending time with.
At the end of the day (gosh I hate that saying), you are what you allow yourself to be. You can’t be a jumpoff if you stop letting men fuck you who aren’t giving you the things that you’d like in whatever type of relationship you have with him them. Maybe you do like to have good sex, but you also want this man to take a stroll with you on the beach or something, well…make your demands and stick to them. You might find out that some men are willing to do those things with you and while they spend time with you, they’ll start to notice that you have more to offer them than some new pussy. So when it comes time to get some new pussy, which they very well may still do, they won’t replace to YOU with new pussy, because you’re more than just pussy.
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22 Comments
12/8/2010
“No I can’t think of anything for us to do, because, I don’t want to do anything but f**k you.” Lmao hahahaha, that’s terrible! You have to take that “I can show you better than I can tell you” mentality with a guy though or he will always just look to you for sex.
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December 21st, 2010 at 7:07 pm
truth enough.
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12/8/2010
“to one man, you maybe nothing more than a weekend warrior, to another man you could be his soul mate”. Well said!
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12/8/2010
Extremely candid and honest view of the mail psyche. Or at least one male. I totally understand where you are coming from. Women have to start taking responsibility in our own actions, and our expectations in a relationship. We need to create our own forecast. And stop letting it rain on our parade, just to feel the precipitation. You can still enjoy the rain, by yourself. You just don’t have to play in it
or maybe just a lil bit. But instead, sit back and wait on the rainbow.Stop expecting a man to,stop being a man. It ain’t gone happen. You have to change who you are. You choose your own fate. A man is only going to do what you let him. Yes,we have needs,
like right now, but we have to start prioritizing our needs. How can you expect to man to respect you, and want more, if every other woman is giving it up? It’s supply and demand. If the supply (rain showers) decreases and demand (the good good)remains the same then higher price and lower quantity.Men would have to work more to afford the high quality.
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December 20th, 2010 at 12:04 pm
Very well said Mrs Poise!!!
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December 21st, 2010 at 7:10 pm
Higher quality doesn’t come in the form of good sex. Women love to say “it’s worth the wait.” It probably isn’t. You’re not waiting to have to good sex, you’re waiting so you get chance to know a potentially good person to have in your life.
Different men respect different women. I simply don’t respect women with 3 kids by three different dudes, I don’t care what they do now. I don’t respect women with 50 tattoos of zodiac signs. You can play Ms. Super Lady all you want and I don’t look at you the same.
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12/8/2010
I like this. Good job.
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12/9/2010
“Like”
I had this convo with my man whore cousin a few years back and when I asked him ‘why, if he likes a woman beyond sex, does he still try to have sex with her immediately?’ And his simple response. “We HAVE to, I gotta try” lol, a simple test of character I guess. So shout out to “southern poise” we have to take responsibility. Know what you are doing.
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December 21st, 2010 at 7:11 pm
I agree with your cousin.
What’s funny about some women though, is that if they really like a guy, they will purposely NOT have sex with him so he won’t think she’s easy. Not realizing that any smart man knows that you might be easy, you’re just easy for him.
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12/9/2010
EXACTLY! Very well written.
PS. Did you really say GOSH? Lmfao xD
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12/10/2010
ITA that you can’t spend time purposely sexing yourself up (showing the clevage wearing painted on jeans), and expect a heterosexual male to not get any thought of approaching you in a sexual way.If i see a handsome guy with his shirt off n glistening muscles my brain thinks sex same guy with a long sleeved cardigan on I think long talks on the telephone, and actual dates.
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December 21st, 2010 at 7:12 pm
lol, exactly.
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12/10/2010
Steve Harvey’s: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man summed up in one blog entry.
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12/10/2010
Women just have to be b*tches huh UH. SMH
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December 21st, 2010 at 7:13 pm
“I hate calling the women bitches, but the bitches love it.” – Drake
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12/27/2010
But why do ALL men seem to just want to have sex with me?” Because you LOOK like sex.
1st: im sooo mad you said Easy like Sunday Morning. LMAO!
2nd: i disgree with looking like sex. sure..it’s easier for some than other..but honestly.. i have DD breasts. how am i hiding those? and men (im sure you’ve said it yourself), have said that some women are sexier in a t/tank and track pants.. so how can we win?
3rd: i do 100% agree that it’s on us (ladies) to determine how we will be treated. but i can attest to the fact that out of the last 4 dudes i’ve met
- 3 have explicitly tried to get inside my walls. even after i’ve told them i want more than that. they say..yeah, yeah. i understand/respect what you are saying.. then ask for a pic of me in red shoes and nothing else.
dammed if we do. dammed if we dont.
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January 12th, 2011 at 6:44 pm
Just because you say you want more than sex, didn’t tell them you didn’t want that from them either. I want a a job with good benefits, that doesn’t mean I don’t want good money too. You have to be very direct and honest. You won’t be able to tell if a man only wants to fuck you, because some men will do whatever it takes to do it, only to leave you right after, while other men will simply ask once, and if you say no, they’ll move on. All you can do, is simply let the man show you his true colors. Focus on how he’s treating you.
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May 8th, 2011 at 1:55 pm
I agree. A lesson that can beearned or learned the hard way. Give a man time to show his true colors and don’t be as easy as Sunday morning. And hopefuly
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10/12/2011
can someone email me at this email address that i put i would really love to get fucked by you which has to be a fucken sexy man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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10/12/2011
can someone email me at this email address that i put i would really love to get fucked by you which has to be a fucken sexy man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If anyone wants 2 have me i will be on mach.com
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2/27/2012
hah this is exactly why i think ill be alone forever. whats the point. men just see me as a fuck. god forbid they get to know me. it is what it is right?
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March 10th, 2012 at 5:56 pm
I’m sure this is not true for every man that meets you.
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